Tuesday, September 27, 2011

The Trophy Husband

Now that my wife is the bread winner for the family, I really like kidding her with this term.  It isn't entirely accurate if you consider I'm just more of a "house husband" than a trophy.

In the month or so that I've been unemployed I've made a lot of strides coming into my new role at home.  I'm still on the job hunt, but with the economy as it is, I'm not putting a lot of stock into being able to land a job that would either reverse the role or make it easier to be working when baby comes.

I do keep busy.  Running a home is a full time job as I am finding out.  I can't imagine how some people (my wife and I included) can pull it off without being home all the time.  No wonder cleaning services are still in high demand. 

Aside from just cleaning and laundry, I also have been devoting time to developing my music skills and working in my woodshop.  Both of these are passions of mine and I'm blessed that I can put myself into them.  The good thing is that I can offer lessons on guitar and ukulele and build things to sell online.  So, income, albeit small and infrequent, is still there.  Who knows; with time and effort these may turn into full time jobs themselves and get me and my wife closer to getting ourselves out of the suburban rut.

~DB

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